vivian chong finally came back to school. She said that yesterday night she knew that today would definitely be a lovely day. And yes I agree, it really was!
Today’s topic for english lesson was real interesting, s-e-x.
“Class, what is your opinion on sex? When you heard people mentioning this word, what would you think about? Today, I’m going to learn something from you all. Know what the teenagers’ minds are thinking about sex. ”
“I think it’s about a boy and a girl.” – eric.
“An enjoyment.” – wen jie.
“Something painful.” – clement.
“To create babies.” – swee imm.
“Something bad.” – kar yee.
“The happiest moment if it's with the right person and at the right time.” – yours truly.
So, what is your opinion towards sex? x)
Teacher told us a lot of stuff about sex, puppy love, infatuation/loving someone secretly and so on. She asked who never had that kind of special feeling towards someone before. Nobody rose up their hands. We kept on teasing each other. “yer, bi qing!” “khee yuen also got leh!” Oh sure they will have, it’s a natural phenomena.
She describe puppy love is sort-of like an imagination thing. Everything about him/her will definitely be good and good in your mind. If there is something negative, it will always be – cute. Quite true honestly, you wouldn’t think about anything nasty/bad about your partner.
Besides that, teacher said those students who always say the four letter words. Whenever they’re around with their partner they’ll suddenly become gentle and polite. True true true. Why? Because we want our partner to admire us and like everything we do.
And I asked teacher to tell us about her first love too. She said she was about form 3 or form 4. At their time, they hardly able to meet people of opposite sex because they’re all separate into girls’ school and boys’ school. So, there was a campfire and teacher was one of the rangers of the school. She attended and suddenly noticed a guy that gives a special feeling to her. “We just like, look each other from faraway because we’re different school. Smile at each other, talk for once in a while and lasted about few months.”
“Puppy love never last long because at your age, you all only choose the ones who are good looking. By you reach the age of adulthood, when you’re at college or university, you’ll start looking people of the same career you have or else you’ll feel like you can’t talk. Just like if you’re a doctor you wouldn’t find a carpenter as your partner right? Or you’re a hawker you wouldn’t feel good when you’re with a lawyer one. It’s like there is a difference of classes.”
Such an interesting lesson. We wouldn’t stop asking questions because we felt like listening teacher to talk and talk continuously about this topic. “If our love ones ask to have sex with us, someone that we really love but yet we’re still not sure whether is he/she the one, how do we reject them? How do we say no?” “What if he’ll get angry and break up and something like that?” “If he really loves you, he’ll just accept it and, done. If he really breaks up, then fine, just let it go. He doesn’t deserve your love because he just wants your body. Why do you want this kind of life partner?”
And teacher made a conclusion. “You’re just curious, it’s all curiosity. Don’t worry about it? When the right time comes, you’ll know what to do. Look at your great grandparents. They didn’t even have the chance to look at their partner as well. Their father just decides this is suitable, this family is good and he/she will just be your life partner forever. Even though they don’t know each other, they’re still able to give birth to your grandparents and the end you’re here. At that time, there isn’t any sex education but yet they still know what to do. So, don’t worry about it. Just enjoy your teenage life.” Ooh, lovely :D
Had 5 periods of relief after recess and played true or dare again. kar yee swee imm jia xin yen theng xiang ting vivian chong joined with me. Didn’t manage to play much because after that encik ong came into class, but 5 minutes before the school bell rang we continued again.
“vivian chong, stand in front of class and make a peace sign with a big wide smile of yours! For five second only!”
“The hand put higher! Higher! Smile wider! Wider!”
“5, 5, 5, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1! Hooray!”
“mah jun wei, I admire your naked pictures!” (monkeys laughed)
“deng yao, have you ever had wet dreams?”
“er, yeah yeah.” (wei loon covered his face with his hands again)
“kar yee, what is the most disgusting things you ever seen ji jing did?”
“just now I passed by 11 and saw him half naked standing beside the window!”
“that’s disgusting?”
“I don’t know, maybe his singing. Every time I call him up, he’ll surely be singing on the other side of the phone!”
I don’t remember the others already, so sorry. But overall, I just wanted to repeat: Vivian Chong, you’re right! Today is an awesome day! (:
